I start with this picture i think you recognize it huh ?
This is a litle bit of cheating but i like to go the easiest way !
For this tips you got to have the eyecandy plugin.
Mark the area you want to go bevel.
Press now on PLUGINS/EYECANDY/INNERBEVEL and use settings :
You have now maked you're firs innnerbevel picture and if you
don't have a similar picture like this you are completely wrong.
But don't give up just try again and I'm sure you make it !